10 Ways To Honour A Deceased Loved One And Make The Most Of Their Legacy
| source:Here Jul 27th, 2022
When someone we love dies, it’s hard to know what to do with their belongings. Do you keep their things forever? How long should you wait before disposing of them? What do you do with items that have sentimental value but aren’t much use anymore (like a wedding dress)? It can be difficult to know how best to honor the memory of a deceased loved one while also being practical. Here are some ideas:
Read their favorite book.
When someone we love passes away, one of the things that can feel most daunting is wondering what to do with their possessions. Whether it’s a physical item like the quilt they made you as a child or something digital (is it ethical to take over your mom’s Netflix account?), we have an urge to have some kind of connection with them even in death, and this may involve keeping something—anything—that belonged to them. But why not consider giving yourself permission instead? It might be sad for us now but chances are that if this person wanted us to keep these personal items after they were gone, they would have explicitly asked us before dying (or maybe even given them away themselves). You could always let go of what doesn’t feel right for you in time; just because something belonged once upon a time doesn’t mean it should stay forevermore.
Create a scrapbook or photo album of their life.
The best way to honor a deceased loved one is to create a scrapbook or photo album of their life. Using pictures and mementos, you can tell their story in an intimate and thoughtful way. Include stories, memories and anecdotes that have been passed down through the years—not just about your loved one but also about yourself. Don’t forget to add your own stories and memories as well; this will help make it even more personal for whomever gets it! Don’t forget to include pictures of you both together; this will help remind them why they love being around each other so much (and won’t want to stop!).
Frame something that they’ve written or produced.
You can also frame something that your loved one has written or produced, like the following; A drawing, painting or photograph, A piece of writing such as a letter, poem, short story or song. You could even frame their school report cards if you have them, A certificate from their college graduation ceremony, and A newspaper article they were featured in. This is especially powerful if it’s related to an achievement they were proud of and had worked hard for (for example: an article about winning an award at work).
Plant a tree or flower in honor of their life.
Plant a tree or flower in their memory, in a place they spent time, where they loved to be and where they are buried, if you have the opportunity.
Frame their portrait.
Framing a portrait is one of the best ways to preserve memories and create a legacy in honor of your loved one. By framing their portrait, you can display it proudly in your home or office for all to see. This will help other people remember them fondly, and keep their memory alive for years to come. This is especially useful if you have a particularly memorable photo of your deceased loved one, as it will become even more meaningful when placed on display around where you spend most of your time during the day.
Regularly light a candle or write them a letter.
There’s something about candlelight that reminds us of love and remembrance, of being drawn close to one another. The next time you light a candle for your loved one, consider how it represents the kind of person they were—and what kind of person you want to be. Light a candle in their honor on their birthday, or on the anniversary of their passing. Or do it just because they deserve it.
If you don’t feel comfortable lighting a real flame around your home, write down some thoughts about that person and put them into an envelope marked “burn only when I die.” Then seal up the envelope and set it aside for future use (the kind where opening letters is more fun than writing them). Alternatively, take this opportunity to write yourself a letter from someone who means so much to you: maybe from your grandmother; maybe from yourself as an adult looking at things through the perspective of child self. Or write an imaginary letter from someone else who has passed away; if there’s no one specific person whom comes immediately mind, consider giving voice to anyone important that has gone before us: an artist we admire; an advocate for social justice; one who fought injustice during times when people were oppressed by prejudice or cruelty…
Purchase a memorial plaque.
Memorial plaques are a classic way to honor the memory of your loved one. They come in all shapes and sizes, so you can choose one that fits with your home décor and needs. As well as being beautiful, they also serve as a constant reminder of the person who once lived there. Make sure that you purchase one made from high-quality materials; this will ensure it lasts for years to come without fading or falling apart. Hire an architect to design a garden area dedicated to their memory. A garden is something that can provide joy not only while you are alive but also long after death – especially if designed by an architectural designer skilled at creating beautiful outdoor spaces with lush foliage and greenery everywhere around them! The best part about these types of projects is that they don’t need much maintenance afterwards because everything within them grows naturally over time without needing any extra effort on behalf from yourself.”
Create a memory quilt from their clothing.
A memory quilt is an excellent way to honor your loved one and make the most of their legacy. A memory quilt can be made from clothing, jewellery and other personal belongings of a deceased person that you want to remember. You can use their clothing as part of a memory quilt which can then be used as wall art or even a blanket/throw for when you’re in bed. You could also turn it into something wearable like a shirt or jacket so that you always have them with you wherever you go!
Light paper lanterns and set off fireworks annually (if fireworks are allowed).
You can light paper lanterns and set off fireworks annually (if fireworks are allowed). Paper lanterns are a symbol of the afterlife, while fireworks are both a celebration of life and sadness at its passing. They can also be used to honor someone who has passed, as they represent the beginning of a new life as well as their end—a beautiful truth that may not be readily apparent if you don’t take into account what each symbol represents.
Use something that they’ve given to you (a scarf, watch, favorite plate, etc.).
Many people have a special item from their loved one that they want to pass on in some way. There are many ways to do this—you could use it as part of your attire or decorate a room in your house with it.
Honoring the memory of a loved one is one way to cope with grief and keep the memory of your loved one alive for future generations to enjoy. Grieving is a normal process, but it can be difficult to accept. When someone you love passes away, it can be hard to find ways to cope with their loss. In this article, we will discuss how honoring the memory of your loved ones can help you heal from their passing and make sure that they are never forgotten. Honoring the memory of a deceased loved one is a way to keep their spirit alive and helps us heal from our grief. It’s also a way to ensure that they live on in our hearts forever.
